Scenes from a marriage / Сцени от един семеен живот: Scenes.From.A.Marriage.1973.CD2.DVDRip.XviD-MDX.str

l did assert myself
once or twice as a girl,

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but mother punished
all such lapses from convention

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with exemplary severity.

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My entire upbringing

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was aimed at making me agreeable.

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l was ugly and graceless.

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A fact
l was constantly reminded of.

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But if l kept
my thoughts to myself

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and was ingratiating,

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my behaviour yielded rewards.

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The real deception
began at puberty.

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My every thought
revolved around sex.

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But this l never told my parents,

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or anyone at all, for that matter.

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Being deceitful and secretive

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became second nature to me.

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My father wanted me
to become a lawyer like himself.

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l said l wanted to be an actress,

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or do something else
within the theatrical world,

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but they laughed at me.

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Since then l go on pretending.

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A sham in my relations to others.

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To men.

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The same sham -

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a desperate attempt to please.

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l've never considered what l want.

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Just:
'What does he want me to think?'

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lt's not unselfishness,
as l used to believe,

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but sheer cowardice.

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lt stems from
being ignorant of who l am.

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Our mistake was in not
breaking free of our families

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''and creating something
worthwhile on our own terms.''''''

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Oh damn, l fell asleep!

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Your words were so interesting, too.
Forgive me...

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Won't you read some more,
unless you feel offended?

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l don't feel offended, but l think
you ought to go home now.

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Yes, l'd better be going.

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Please call,
if only for the sake of the children.

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- You're always welcome here.
- lf only Paula weren't so jealous.

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Still, she has good reason...

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- When will you know about the US?
- ln a month or so.

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- Let me know how it goes.
- Of course, l'll phone you.

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We need to make up our minds
about the divorce.

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- Do you want to marry again?
- l don't know.

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l'd rather wait, what do you think?

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l don't know what l think...

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- You'll stay the night, won't you?
- Yes.

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- How do you feel?
- Frightened...

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Let's muster up some courage.

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- Can't you sleep?
- Not a chance.

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l'd better go home. Forgive me!

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- That's Paula's handwriting.
- She wrote to me.

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- What's she up to now?
- She sent this before she left.

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Read it here.

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''''''Dear Marianne, l assure you''

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that there is no ulterior motive
behind this letter.

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l took this job in London

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to break a vicious cycle
of jealousy and suspicion.

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l know Johan will look you up
the minute l've gone.

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l've only myself to blame, as l've
stopped him from seeing you all.

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''lf only it was possible
to put things right.''''''

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- How like Paula!
- She wants us to be friends.

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- She can't endure hostility.
- How touching. And you believe her?

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''''''Johan is the gentlest
and kindest person l've ever met.''

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He lacks self-confidence,

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''though he tries to appear
so brave and cheerful.''''''

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You can say anything about anyone.
lt always fits in some respect.

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THE lLLlTERATES

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l'm glad we could meet here.
lt saves time.

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- lt's not exactly cosy.
- But suitable for divorce matters.

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Here's the agreement,
word for word as we decided.

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- Then l don't need to read it.
- Always read before signing.

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- Don't look so grumpy.
- l'm not grumpy.

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Here's the list of our joint property
and its distribution.

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lt's just a list,
it doesn't require a signature.

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You get Granny's clock?
That must be a mistake.

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- But she left it to me.
- l don't recall that.

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lf you're so attached to it keep it,
but it is mine.

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You're always right, aren't you?
Take the damn clock!

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- Check that l haven't fleeced you.
- Your sarcasm is wasted on me.

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l have such a miserable cold.

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What do you say
to a glass of fine old brandy?

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Yes, l think we should
have one now.

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Egerman gave me a bottle.

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Some grateful Parisian colleagues
gave him a whole case. Cheers!

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Not bad, huh? l like it.

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l don't care for brandy as a rule,
but this is nice.

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l feel better already.

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lt's rough all the same.

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- Getting divorced.
- lt's just paperwork.

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We've been living apart for ages
and we're in agreement,

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but feelings of guilt linger on.

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lt's strange... Johan?

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- What?
- lt's strange.

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On my way over
l was determined not to cry.

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You said you felt guilty.

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Let's go and sit on the sofa instead.

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Put the lights out,
the glare is ghastly.

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How can you work
in such a bleak room?

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The sofa isn't
very comfortable either.

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lf you put your feet up, it's fine.

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- More brandy?
- Yes, please.

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- Comfy?
- Very.

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- ls this whole place empty?
- There's a nightwatchman.

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How nice!

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- l just think it's nice.
- Nothing's nice with a cold.

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Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
You're not going to die. Cheers!

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- This gets better and better.
- Aren't you in good spirits!

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To be honest, l'm in love.

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- With that David person?
- No, that's over.

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Give me a kiss.

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- But l'm ill.
- l never catch your germs.

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Give me a kiss, l want you to.

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- Was it what you expected?
- Much better.

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Now, put your hand on my breast.

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- Are you seducing me?
- That's right.

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Right here on the carpet. Right now.

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Doesn't that sound fun?

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You look suspicious.
Afraid of the nightwatchman?

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We're still married, after all.

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Come, lie on top of me.

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People should make love
on the floor more often.

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- Lock the door.
- No one will walk in on us.

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- l'm kind of a prude.
- Just in case the watchman comes.

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- He might be eavesdropping.
- No, he's doing his rounds.

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ls it wise to take your trousers off
with that cold?

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- You can warm me.
- So you don't freeze your thing...

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Poor baby, you're so miserable...

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lt's lovely being kissed by you.

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l enjoy it so...

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What if...?

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Shut your eyes,

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or l'll feel self-conscious.

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Put your hands on my hips.

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That's nice...

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What if the watchman walked in now?

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He could join us. We're liberated.

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Let's stay here all night...

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...and just drink and make love.

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Tomorrow, we'll file
our divorce papers.

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A penny for your thoughts.

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l'm not telling.

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- Are you hungry?
- l always am.

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What about
a steak tartare and some beer?

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You're not supposed to take me out.

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l'm in Uppsala with my students.

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Poor Paula!

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ln that case,
l'd love to dine with you.

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- Where's the bathroom?
- Down the corridor, to the left.

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Let's sign these papers
and go out and celebrate.

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Pay tribute
to a long and happy marriage.

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l think l'll take them home with me.

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Why do an about-face now?

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You said yourself to read things
through before signing them.

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Let's read it through from A to Z,

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so you see
that l haven't cheated you.

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- Why are you so upset?
- l'm not. Let's get moving.

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- You look pissed off to me.
- l am, but l'll control myself.

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Like l always do
when l'm subjected to your whims.

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Can we end this boring discussion?

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lt's late and tomorrow's a work day.

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- Don't you want to have supper?
- No, thank you.

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l'm grateful for
the favours bestowed on me.

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- Talk about whims...
- Now look here, Johan!

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lt's pointless
even trying to discuss this now.

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Let's stuff these into an envelope,
then you can take them home.

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Then you and Paula
can pore over the wording

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to see that l haven't screwed you.

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- What's going on?
- Nothing.

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We were good friends a minute ago.

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Don't forget Eva's birthday.

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- Do l usually?
- No, because l always remind you.

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Could you pay for her trip to France?

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- How much is that?
- 2,000 krona.

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That's out of the question!

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- Then let your mother pay.
- l've borrowed too much as it is.

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l've just paid for Karin's orthodontist.

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- Doesn't she have free dental care?
- She refuses to go to that place.

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Eva will have to cancel her trip.

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lt won't hurt her to learn
that she can't have everything.

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She's too damned spoilt
and ill-mannered!

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- Mother was appalled last week.
- Your mother told you that?

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Well, Eva is at a difficult age.

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Don't let the girls rule the roost.

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l have their complete confidence

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and for that l'm grateful.

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l couldn't care less
about petty details like manners.

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l can't afford the trip.
Tell her that.

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- Tell her yourself.
- Why? You have custody.

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l merely fork out
huge sums for child support,

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leaving me high and dry.

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You and l were born

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with silver spoons in our mouths.

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We've squandered our resources,

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leaving us poor, bitter, and angry.

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However trite, it's the truth:

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We're emotional illiterates.

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We've been taught about anatomy
and African farming methods.

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We've learned
mathematical formulas by heart.

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We haven't been taught
a thing about the mind.

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